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I started this blog as a way to begin to sort out my thoughts and feelings around a near death experience I had years ago that I never really processed….I love what bubbles up and moves through me as I write. There is always the intention to help others, really in whatever I do, so I hope whatever moves through my fingers onto the screen can serve you in some way. In fact, it will, because that’s how the universe works 🙂 We always get just what we need at the perfect time, the perfect place and in the perfect way. Love to you! xox
Oh! Email me if you want! 🙂
Krista Gorman, PA-C
11 thoughts on “Home”
Angela
I found your interview on YouTube. It was somewhat reassuring, but I am very depressed at the state of my life. I have taken so many actions to try to improve things and I have lost hope over the bad people and bad situations that persist. Is there something you could tell me that Would be helpful? Some action I could take to rise above those out to harm me?
Krista Gorman, PA-C
Angela, I hope you received my message to you. Please let me know. I’m sending you so much love. xoxo
Terrence Hendricks
Where may I purchase a copy of your book, I Died And Learned How To Live?
Krista Gorman, PA-C
I have taken it off Amazon to rework it and will be republishing sometime in the near future. I will post here when I do. Thank you for your interest! Love, Krista
Angela M Bolton
Hello Krista, Thank you so much for replying! No, I did not receive your message. Please send again, if you can. Many thanks!
Krista Gorman, PA-C
Hi Angela…I just republished I Died And Learned How To Live..maybe you will find something in it that helps..sending so much love to you xox Krista
Sharon Harris
Hi Krista. I really enjoyed the video. I found your story fascinating. I tried to buy your book on Amazon, but it was not available (except for over $400 by a 3rd party seller.) Are you going to put it out again? Here’s an idea: Createspace.com is part of Amazon. You can upload your book there for free and they don’t print any copies until someone orders one. I wrote a little children’s chapter book called “Ray’s Violet: The Story of a Most Extraordinary Lightning Bug” and that is how mine works. It shows up on Amazon.com just like any other book. If you did that, people could have access to your book and it would not cost you anything. You might check it out.
I love hearing about your description of love. The only thing that bothers me sometimes is that sometimes it is difficult to know what “love” would do in certain situations. My husband has two sons who are my step-sons. They are in their late 50’s and keep asking for money to help them because they can’t seem to support themselves on their “painting business” which is very sporatic. They call saying they are about to be on the street and want money to get an apartment and a computer to develop a website for there business. We have helped them many times, but my husband told them over a year ago that we could not give them any more money. They have called again asking for $3000, etc. They are both single and live together in a motel room right now. My husband told them recently to stop harassing us or he would call the police.
So, my dilemma is: what is love in this case? Giving them money will just keep them dependent and coming back for more. It does not seem loving to tell them not to contact us (because they don’t except to beg for money), but it is kind of a hardship on us to keep giving them money and it doesn’t actually help them in the long run. I often feel guilty that we are not helping them, but I know there are places to go to get help if they become homeless that is not taking advantage of us. My husband fears that if he dies soon (he’s eighty and not in best health) that they will pester me and not ever stop if I do help them.
Spiritual teachers say that you have to love yourself also–and probably first. You hinted at that in the video. I’d love to hear more about your thoughts on that. I think that we (I) almost have to divorce myself from the situation in order to protect myself from them. Can that be love?
I’m just confused about that, and somehow I thought to ask you about your thoughts. I haven’t done that before.
Thank you if you have time to reply. If not, I hope you will consider making your book available to the public. If it is available and I missed it, please let me know how to get it.
Thanks,
Sharon Harris
Krista Gorman, PA-C
Hi Sharon thank you so much for sharing. It’s been my experience that when I honor myself first, everything else falls into place. Lovingly saying no is a lesson for all of us. Detaching from their struggles is healthy if it’s done with love. My book was self published through Createspace and I will publish it again one day soon. In the meantime, my story will be coming out in another book to be published at the end of the year. It’s a book that includes other NDE stories and words of healing, through love. My very best to you and your husband.
Krista Gorman, PA-C
Hi Sharon! I republished my book…you can find it on Amazon 🙂 xox
Angela Smith
Hi Krista,
I echo what other people have noted in that you mention it’s important for us to love ourselves. How does that play out in (your opinion) in relationships? I mean some would say you’re being selfish. How do you differentiate bring selfish and making decisions for your best interest and not wanting to hurt people and struggling with breaking commitments? Is there a way to check if a decision is originated in self love or selfishness and wrong thinking?
Krista Gorman, PA-C
Hi Angela,
Discernment regarding whether a thought, statement, action is selfish is through the level of ego involved. For me, deciding whether or not I’m coming from a place of ego is by assessing the level of fear associated with the situation. Fear is ego. Anger is ego. Breaking a situation that is disturbing down to its most basic source always reduces to fear/ego. Then, what can we do to shift into a space of love to improve it? Loving ourselves and honoring what is healthy, good, right for ourselves in any situation can only be for the best. The reaction of the other is not your responsibility, it’s theirs. That is my short answer! Much Love! xox
Krista