Whenever something comes up between me and my husband that needs a little attention, I stop and try and take inventory before diving into a long discussion about whatever issue we’re having at the time. If I don’t do that, I’m apt to say things in a way I don’t mean to, or say things in general that I don’t mean to say. Mentally reviewing words before they are chosen and spoken, and checking in to see where I’m at energetically (love that word) really helps to minimize conflict in our discussions. The bottom line is, we can only control how we conduct ourselves in our relationships, and a little attention to detail goes a looong way when trying to communicate how we feel. The other person picks up on our vibe, and if it’s considerate and loving, positive and pure, that is what our relationship will be all about.
Love to you this beautiful day!